Read on the news about a talk on death and inspired me to write this piece.
Several years ago, I read about a story 《像我这样的一个女子》("A Woman Like Me") by the renowned HK writer Xi Xi (real name: Zhang Ai Lun/ Zhang Yan 张彦、张爱伦) and till now, it still leaves a deep impression on me. The story is about this funeral makeup artist who was discriminated and looked down upon by society. When her boyfriend found out about her job, he left her. She was devastated but knew that someone like her would never find true love. Even though this is just a story, I think it reflects something about society and human beings: the fear of death and anything to do with the dead. I have not come across any of this makeup artist who can share stories with me but in this male-dominated industry, the spirit and determination of these ladies are worth mentioning:
A very short writeup about the Ang sisters of Ang Yew Seng funeral parlour:
A more detailed one in Chinese:
http://news.omy.sg/News/Local%2BNews/Story/OMYStory201004091526-142424.html
你怕死吗?我不能说我不怕...
但想到那些女性殡仪化妆师/礼仪师必须面对社会的种种歧视、冷眼看待,死还真的那么可怕吗?
你怕死吗?我不能说我不怕...
但想到那些女性殡仪化妆师/礼仪师必须面对社会的种种歧视、冷眼看待,死还真的那么可怕吗?
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